FLY2 10,108 Posted January 14, 2017 Report Share Posted January 14, 2017 Roberts who insist on being called Robert invariably ar up their own backsides. Roberts who don't mind being called a Bob are normally amicable, genuine and laid back. Just my opinion. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
loppylugs 8,427 Posted January 14, 2017 Report Share Posted January 14, 2017 Reading through this thread, Ben. Much as I agree with you I would suggest you are skating on dangerously thin ice. Nottstalgians are a notably affable friendly lot, but I wouldn't dare call anybody 'dim.' LOL Just kidding. Re. Roberts. I couldn't agree more. Late father in law always preferred Bob. A nicer guy you couldn't have wished to meet. It is remarkable how so many of us have noted similar traits among some names. I once knew a Roger in Toronto. Devious, pompous little twit. Not to say all Rogers are like that, but that one sure lived up to his reputation. I'm not saying much about ladies names that is really dangerous ground. Suffice it to say I have been married to two Janets now. Both real ladies. Actually Mrs. Loppy's first name is Emma. But she prefers Janet and goes by that. OK by me. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Jill Sparrow 10,304 Posted January 14, 2017 Report Share Posted January 14, 2017 #27 The only Roger I know is a sausage dog (dachshund)! He's tiny but absolutely gorgeous! 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Chulla 4,946 Posted January 14, 2017 Report Share Posted January 14, 2017 Sorry Liz, but they were. Rolls-Royce had a test pilot whose name was Bob Jones. He was killed in an accident and he is named on a memorial as Robert. It was mistakenly taken for granted that his name was Robert. He is buried in Hucknall cemetery; his headstone says Bob Jones AFC. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
carni 10,094 Posted January 14, 2017 Report Share Posted January 14, 2017 Some people are given at birth what appear to be shortened names. At a recent wedding, whilst looking at the table layout names, a friend flew into a rage, alerting all around her, to the fact that her place setting was made out to Rebecca, when in fact her name was Becky. To us she seemed to be over reacting, but perhaps after 48 years of saying my name is not Rebecca it is Becky, the poor gel snapped! Quote Link to post Share on other sites
FLY2 10,108 Posted January 14, 2017 Report Share Posted January 14, 2017 I'm sensitive about my full name too Carni. My mother insisted on calling me by my full name until the day she died, and I was nearly 50. The shortened version is much more friendly, amicable and informal. Which I dare say is me to a T. 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Jill Sparrow 10,304 Posted January 14, 2017 Report Share Posted January 14, 2017 People tend to assume that my name is Gillian, it isn't! My mother disliked names which could be abbreviated and named me Jill. People sometimes call me Jilly and it irritates me. My father always called me Liz which, even though my middle name is Elizabeth, was probably more of a nickname. When I was born, my sister wanted to call me Wendy. I'm glad my parents didn't allow her choice to prevail! Quote Link to post Share on other sites
radfordred 6,284 Posted January 14, 2017 Report Share Posted January 14, 2017 I would like to hear 2017s morning school register called out? If they still do that? 3 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
carni 10,094 Posted January 14, 2017 Report Share Posted January 14, 2017 If you do a bit of Googling, there are so many names that are changed, for instance a very common one is my father in laws name John, always referred to as Jack. With a lot of them, a connection isn't obvious. I found this list on this site link. Quite interesting if you fancy a browse.http://english.stackexchange.com/questions/8767/changes-in-english-names-of-people Barbara → Babs Charles → Chuck → Chaz → Chicka Dorothy → Dot, Dottie Edward → Ted, Teddy (e.g. Edward "Ted" Kennedy) Eleanor, Helen → Nell, Nellie Elizabeth → Bess, Bessie Gerald → Jerry Henry → Hal, Hank, Harry James → Jim → Jimbo, Jimmy John → Jack Katherine → Kitty Margaret → Peggy, Peg, Meg Philippa → Pippa, Pip or Pippy Richard → Dick Sarah → Sally Theodore → Ted, Teddy Virginia → Ginger, Ginny Quote Link to post Share on other sites
carni 10,094 Posted January 14, 2017 Report Share Posted January 14, 2017 Jill, My sister in law didn't want her children to have names that could be shortened, and I can understand that, as so many very nice names can be spoilt by cutting them short. Her choices were Emma and Adam. all their lives they have been known affectionately by family and friends as Em and Ad. Shame really. 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
FLY2 10,108 Posted January 14, 2017 Report Share Posted January 14, 2017 My two daughters both have first names that can be shortened, and they like it. My stepdaughter has a long first name, but we never shorten it, as it would detract from the beauty of it. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Cliff Ton 10,457 Posted January 14, 2017 Report Share Posted January 14, 2017 My mum's name was Betty; not shortened from Elizabeth as was often assumed. On her birth certificate and other places, she was Betty. Maybe her parents didn't realise that Betty was a shortened version of Elizabeth. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
katyjay 5,090 Posted January 14, 2017 Author Report Share Posted January 14, 2017 I am Kathleen, I think the only time I was called that was by teachers at school, in fact no one's name was shortened there. But I have always been Kath everywhere else. Will answer to anything though, Kathleen, Kath, Kate, Katy, Kay, Kat. All Kathleen's/Katherine's over here are called Kathy, without exception. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
MargieH 7,599 Posted January 14, 2017 Report Share Posted January 14, 2017 My mum's name was Kathleen (also my middle name). She was only ever called Kath. It's supposed to mean 'pure'. Now there's a name to live up to, katyjay! Quote Link to post Share on other sites
nonnaB 4,894 Posted January 14, 2017 Report Share Posted January 14, 2017 I dont like shortening names. My daughter and daughter in law are called Deborah ( daughter) and Debora (in law) its confusing but I found the pronuciation helps distinguish one from the other. My son Is James with my fathers name as his second name but it wasn't until I saw a document of my grandfathers also James that I realised that it could be shortened to Jim. Fortunately everyone calls him by his full name but his wife calls him Je. My daughter gets called Deb and Debby but to us she is Deborah , thats her name and thats whats she is called. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
MargieH 7,599 Posted January 14, 2017 Report Share Posted January 14, 2017 Some of our young grandchildren's peers at school are Reuben, Holly, Sebastian, Oliver, Louis, Harry, Daisy, Alaric, Lydia, Mia, Hezekiah, Rhiannon, Elsa, Oscar, Emma, Alfie, Alara, Gabriel, Owen, Joshua, Mia.... I could go on, but I think the list shows that there weren't many names like that when I was at school! This is just an ordinary State Primary School btw Quote Link to post Share on other sites
katyjay 5,090 Posted January 14, 2017 Author Report Share Posted January 14, 2017 In my school days it was all Janet, Linda, Gillian, Margaret, Susan, Jennifer etc. I'm sure our parents generation thought we'd all got those new-fangled names, when they were all Gladys, Olive, Elsie etc. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
benjamin1945 16,139 Posted January 14, 2017 Report Share Posted January 14, 2017 Steady. On Katy I went out with a Gladys and olive lol Quote Link to post Share on other sites
MargieH 7,599 Posted January 14, 2017 Report Share Posted January 14, 2017 Ben, was Gladys in 1964 when you were listening to the Dave Clark Five? 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
benjamin1945 16,139 Posted January 14, 2017 Report Share Posted January 14, 2017 Yes margie..............and she was ''Glad all over''.......Whitwell and Worksop...............lol. 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
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