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  1. If you really want to know racism try being a non-asian living in an asian country.  the Chinese call us 'white ghosts', the Japanese, if being polite, call us 'foreign person' and if not being polite call us 'iteki' or 'barbarian'. 

     

    In Thailand I cannot own land or work in a large number of professions which are reserved for Thais.  The price for a foreigner to go in a national park is 300 baht (about GBP 6.80p)  for a Thai it's 30 baht.  As a foreigner I could not adopt my wife's daughters when we married and as a foreigner I have to report to the immigration department every 90 days to tell them where I live, despite living in the same house for 20 years.  Once a year I must go and show them I have transferred  about 1,500 pounds a month into Thailand for the past year, with a copy of every page of my bankbook plus a letter from my bank giving my account details as of this morning, plus  copy of a dozen other documents. No free health treatment of course.

     

    So why?  because I'm happily married to a wonderful woman here.  Both her daughters have got a good degree and both are working.  And the local people are wonderful.  But the beaurocracy hates us being non-asian. Oh, and I was once physically pulled out of a queue for a theme park because I was queuing with my wife and the girls but the foreigner's queue, with it's ten-fold entry fee was elsewhere.

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  2. Dr (Bill) Chapman was a wonderful teacher.   He once told me I spoke French like a Spanish cow!  He was probably right.    He had a good singing voice and sang as the Pirate King  in the school production of The Pirates of Penzance.

    I last saw Doc Chapman at the City Ground years later.  One of the  teachers I remeber fondly.

  3. On 1/2/2021 at 2:31 AM, Cliff Ton said:

     

    There’s a lot to comment on, and I’ll have to start somewhere, so I’ll thrash around at random. Some of this I’ve posted in other threads, but so what…..

     

    You seem to be one year older than me. You were at Brinkhill; I was at Greencroft. At Fairham I was also in Fleming. I always liked Smart; got on ok with him and seemed reasonable and decent.

     

    I’d forgotten about the holy trinity of Gideon Bible, Hymn book, and timetable, but now you mention them I also had the set (at least to begin with).

     

    I was never taught by - or had any involvement with  - Fred Riddell, but in all the years since then, I’ve never seen or heard anyone say a good word for him. Often as people get older, they look back on unpleasant school memories with slightly less anger than they felt at the time. The universal exception is Riddell. People hated him then, and they still hate him now. I almost wish I'd been taught by him, just to see how unpleasant he was.

     

    And I never really liked Naylor either. He always seemed a bit volatile and potentially nasty.

     

    I never went to any reunions because I was never aware of any, or didn’t know where to look to find out about them. I think they happened in the days before ‘Social media’ was invented, because I wouldn’t have missed them now. I used to be on Friends Reunited as well, and was disappointed when it closed. I grabbed a lot of infants and junior school photos from there before they vanished - but there were never any school photos from Fairham. Only photos of sports teams, societies, and prize winnings.   Friends Re also had a section for work places, and I definitely wish that was still around.

     

     And I know the L-block bridge you’re talking about.

    And I remember the flats being built.

    And I did a paper round for George Parker’s shop (which you mentioned in the other thread  

     

    https://nottstalgia.com/forums/topic/2565-clifton-picsvideos/?page=2&tab=comments#comment-655211

     

    Many years after I left Fairham (Fleming House also, Graham Hind as Housemaster, a wonderful man)  I was on a train to London and Fred Riddell was there and his voice took me back to that frightened schoolboy of about a decade before.  I so wanted to go and tell him and his political friends he was with what a swine he was, but I desisted.  50 years later I'm still in two minds whether or not I should have.

  4. Beekay, the easiest way to start your tree is to go and talk to your oldest living relative and ask them what they know.

    Otherwise they sometimes inconsiderately go and die and then all that knowledge they had is gone forever.

    Get your own birth certificate.  That will tell you your parent's names and mum's maiden name.  Find their wedding certificate for their parents' names.  That's a good start.

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  5. My father  was in the Royal Navy from 1938 until 1952.  He served on a number of ships including the battleship HMS King George V, and HMS Glasgow when they rescued the King of Norway and the Norwegian gold reserves ahead of the German army.

     

    But most of his war service  he was on convoy escort duty across the Atlantic on HMS Gentian, a flower class corvette.  On one trip he kept a diary from when they left Liverpool to arriving in Nova Scotia.  I found it in his effects when he died 7 years ago and I typed it up and offered it to the Imperial War Museum.  They were very pleased to receive it because as they said most war diaries were written by officers and my dad was an Able Seaman and he wrote about life below decks.  Like most servicemen he never spoke about his war service except once when he said that it's not nice having to kick bits of your mate overboard after you've been attacked.

     

    I am still very proud of him and his generation and what they did for us.

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  6. Albert, I think you are so wrong about Mr. Mullaney.  He was one of the kindest teachers I knew there.

    I once told him I didn't understand the point he was making in maths and he got the lad next to me

    to stand up and Mr. Mullaney sat down at the side of me and worked it through with me until I

    understood.  Few teachers would do that.

    He was as bald then as I am now 60 years later, and one Christmas our class bought him a joke

    giant comb and a dispenser of brilliantine.  You wouldn't do that for a bad teacher.  And he took it

    in good stead.

     

    Now Fred Riddell..................

  7. Get a copy of your dad's birth certificate.  Fortunately there was only one Ernest Spencer born in

    Nottingham in the December quarter 1906.

    You should be able to find your dad in the 1911 census to give his parents and maybe some  siblings.

    Look either side of his family house in the census because relatives often lived nearby.

    The 1939 census, although all details are not yet released, could be of help.

    Voter's lists might be held at the Records Office.

    Possibly the baptism registers of the nearest church might be of help.

    There wasn't a census in 1941 because of the war.  

    Join the Nottingham Family History Society.

     

    I hope that lot is of help.

     

  8. If you mix borax with sugar and a little water it soon goes hard.  But I like the idea of borax and peanut butter, I'll try that out.  We have lots of different types of ants here in Thailand, but fortunately the large red ones prefer to live outside.